{"id":4755,"date":"2024-09-25T05:15:00","date_gmt":"2024-09-25T03:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/?p=4755"},"modified":"2024-10-28T08:11:44","modified_gmt":"2024-10-28T06:11:44","slug":"oldalszelben-helytallni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/en\/oldalszelben-helytallni\/","title":{"rendered":"Standing Strong in Crosswinds"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>In life, it&#8217;s often not swimming against the current that&#8217;s the hardest, but when pressure hits you from an unexpected direction, from the side. It&#8217;s harder to stand firm in these moments because you can&#8217;t always prepare. Side attacks often catch you off guard and sweep you away. 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Has my body changed? Yes, I know, people\u2019s bodies change, but so does the audience (and their thoughts). If not, here\u2019s the good news: eyesight worsens with age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The real question is: do you feel good in your own skin? If yes, then your question becomes irrelevant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In which world does something count as breaking the norm?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When was the last time you felt like an adult? Have you ever felt it? How do you know if your thoughts are mature?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cShame is a monster that dissolves in the light.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What is still possible in this life? You could write this on the doorpost every day as guidance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One dog can herd an entire flock of sheep. Yet, if the sheep moved together, they could trample the dog. Why is this? Why don\u2019t the sheep move? Who benefits from allowing this?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">September 25, 2024.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In life, it&#8217;s often not swimming against the current that&#8217;s the hardest, but when pressure hits you from an unexpected direction, from the side. It&#8217;s harder to stand firm in these moments because you can&#8217;t always prepare. Side attacks often catch you off guard and sweep you away. 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