{"id":6158,"date":"2024-12-01T17:17:00","date_gmt":"2024-12-01T15:17:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/?p=6158"},"modified":"2025-02-02T23:49:50","modified_gmt":"2025-02-02T21:49:50","slug":"so-which-fate-did-i-inherit-from-the-other-side","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/en\/so-which-fate-did-i-inherit-from-the-other-side\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00a0So Which Fate Did I Inherit? \u2013 From the Other Side"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u00a0Az \u00f6r\u00f6ks\u00e9g nem csak anyagi vagy genetikai. T\u00f6rt\u00e9netek, trag\u00e9di\u00e1k \u00e9s megk\u00fczd\u00e9sek form\u00e1j\u00e1ban is tov\u00e1bbad\u00f3dik. Az apai \u00e1gunk t\u00f6rt\u00e9nete kevesebb t\u00f6rt\u00e9nelmi vihart, de ann\u00e1l t\u00f6bb csal\u00e1di terhet hordoz \u2013 gener\u00e1ci\u00f3kon \u00e1t\u00edvel\u0151 \u00e1rnyakat, amiket neh\u00e9z kiker\u00fclni.<\/em><\/p>\n\n<!--more-->\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00a0Az apai oldalam t\u00f6rt\u00e9nete t\u00f6rt\u00e9nelmi szempontb\u00f3l kev\u00e9sb\u00e9 viharos, mint az anyai \u00e1g, de csal\u00e1di trag\u00e9di\u00e1k itt is akadnak sz\u00e9p sz\u00e1mmal.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nagyap\u00e1m apja massz\u00edv alkoholista volt. Gyorsan hozz\u00e1teszem, hogy a nagyap\u00e1mat soha nem l\u00e1ttam egy poh\u00e1r born\u00e1l t\u00f6bb alkoholt inni. A d\u00e9dap\u00e1m ig\u00e9nye, hogy az eredeti, m\u00e1r sz\u0171k\u00f6ss\u00e9 v\u00e1lt sz\u00fcl\u0151i h\u00e1zb\u00f3l kik\u00f6lt\u00f6zz\u00f6n, teljesen \u00e9rthet\u0151. \u00c9p\u00edtett is egy \u00faj h\u00e1zat a hegyen, a kor szok\u00e1sainak megfelel\u0151en s\u00e1rb\u00f3l \u00e9s szalm\u00e1b\u00f3l. Azonban valami hiba cs\u00faszott az \u00e9p\u00edtkez\u00e9sbe. A nedves falakban valamilyen bakteri\u00e1lis fert\u0151z\u00e9s lehetett, ami lassan, de biztosan \u00e9rsz\u0171k\u00fcletet okozott. Az eredm\u00e9ny: a d\u00e9dap\u00e1m \u00e9s n\u00e9gy fia mind megvakult 40 \u00e9ves kor\u00e1ra.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A nagyap\u00e1m 24 \u00e9vesen, amikor a l\u00e1nya megsz\u00fcletett, m\u00e1r csak vastag szem\u00fcveggel l\u00e1tott. Hat \u00e9vvel k\u00e9s\u0151bb, amikor az ap\u00e1m sz\u00fcletett, m\u00e1r csak foltokat. P\u00e1r \u00e9vvel k\u00e9s\u0151bb a m\u0171t\u0151b\u0151l \u00fagy j\u00f6tt ki, hogy m\u00e1r csak a nappal \u00e9s \u00e9jszaka k\u00f6z\u00f6tti k\u00fcl\u00f6nbs\u00e9get tudta meg\u00e1llap\u00edtani.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Naivit\u00e1s lenne azt gondolni, hogy a nagyap\u00e1m fiatal feln\u0151ttkor\u00e1t nem k\u00eds\u00e9rte m\u00e9ly depresszi\u00f3, ami az eg\u00e9sz csal\u00e1dra r\u00e1nyomta a b\u00e9lyeg\u00e9t. Tal\u00e1n nem v\u00e9letlen, hogy az ap\u00e1m m\u00e1r t\u00edz\u00e9vesen doh\u00e1nyzott, \u00e9s az sem, hogy mindm\u00e1ig nem besz\u00e9l az \u00e9rz\u00e9seir\u0151l. M\u00e1r gyermekk\u00e9nt is mindig volt valaki k\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00f6tte, akinek \u201efontosabb\u201d vagy \u201es\u00falyosabb\u201d probl\u00e9m\u00e1i voltak.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unokak\u00e9nt \u00e9n egy higgadt, kiegyens\u00falyozott embert ismertem meg a nagyap\u00e1mban. Mire megsz\u00fclettem, m\u00e1r h\u00fasz \u00e9ve csak a nappal \u00e9s \u00e9jszaka k\u00fcl\u00f6nbs\u00e9g\u00e9t \u00e9rz\u00e9kelte, de m\u00e9g ezt is egyre kev\u00e9sb\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Az apai nagymam\u00e1m csal\u00e1dj\u00e1ban m\u00e1sfajta trag\u00e9di\u00e1k zajlottak. Az \u0151 apja az els\u0151 vil\u00e1gh\u00e1bor\u00fab\u00f3l f\u00e9lig s\u00fcketen t\u00e9rt haza, \u00e9s a falu tejesembere lett. Napjait p\u00e1link\u00e1s reggeli ind\u00edtotta, amit egy pipa k\u00f6vetett, majd szek\u00e9rre \u00fclt, \u00e9s hordta a tejet a faluban. Hazafel\u00e9 rendszeresen meg\u00e1llt a kocsm\u00e1n\u00e1l \u2013 a lovak ilyenkor m\u00e1r hazatal\u00e1ltak n\u00e9lk\u00fcle is.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A nagyany\u00e1m apj\u00e1nak n\u00e9gy l\u00e1nya volt, k\u00f6zt\u00fck \u0151 maga is. A m\u00e1sodik vil\u00e1gh\u00e1bor\u00fa idej\u00e9n \u00e9s ut\u00e1na a faluban megjelen\u0151 orosz katon\u00e1k rendszeresen zaklatt\u00e1k a fiatal l\u00e1nyokat. Az apjuk ilyenkor felzavarta \u0151ket a padl\u00e1sra vagy a sz\u00e9nakazalba, hogy elrejts\u00e9k \u0151ket. A kamaszkori trauma \u00e1rny\u00e9ka gener\u00e1ci\u00f3kon \u00e1t \u00e9rezhet\u0151.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Az ap\u00e1m \u00e9rzelmi fejl\u0151d\u00e9s\u00e9re aligha volt es\u00e9ly ezekben a k\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00e9nyekben. Az, hogy befel\u00e9 fordul\u00f3 emberr\u00e9 v\u00e1lt, nem csoda. 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