{"id":11005,"date":"2025-11-28T05:27:00","date_gmt":"2025-11-28T03:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/?p=11005"},"modified":"2026-02-19T00:37:25","modified_gmt":"2026-02-18T22:37:25","slug":"11005","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/fr\/11005\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u00f6t\u0151d\u00e9sek, kih\u00edv\u00e1sok \u00e9s k\u00e1v\u00e9s \u00fczenetek"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Te\u00e1r\u00f3l, k\u00e1v\u00e9s cs\u00f6ndekr\u0151l, k\u00f6t\u0151d\u00e9si zavarokr\u00f3l \u00e9s az online kapcsolattart\u00e1s teljesen h\u00e9tk\u00f6znapi, m\u00e9gis ijeszt\u0151en neh\u00e9z kih\u00edv\u00e1s\u00e1r\u00f3l \u00edrok. Tal\u00e1n nem vagyok mag\u00e1nyos \u2013 csak n\u00e9ha t\u00e9nyleg null\u00e1r\u00f3l kell \u00fajratanulni, hogyan besz\u00e9lgessek \u00e9l\u0151 emberekkel.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Mondatfoszl\u00e1nyok k\u00f6vetkeznek. 2025 november\u00e9ben, Budapesten \u00e9s Zal\u00e1ban, egy napl\u00f3bejegyz\u00e9st sem k\u00e9sz\u00edtettem, helyette mondatt\u00f6red\u00e9keket jegyeztem fel \u2013 ott \u00e9s akkor, amikor azok \u00e9pp eszembe jutottak. Most ezeket nem id\u0151rendi sorrendbe rendezem; \u00fagy v\u00e1logatok bel\u0151l\u00fck, ahogy az aktu\u00e1lis kedvem dikt\u00e1lja. Igen, a d\u00e1tumokat \u00e9s neveket sz\u00e1nd\u00e9kosan rontottam el.<\/pre>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u00d6sszeszedtem n\u00e9h\u00e1ny, Magyarorsz\u00e1gon feljegyzett mondatr\u00e9szletet.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Amikre 2025. december tizedik\u00e9n, Hurghad\u00e1ban, a sivatagi naplement\u00e9re n\u00e9z\u0151 erk\u00e9lyemen \u00fclve v\u00e1laszolok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTeh\u00e1t nekem az a komfortos, ha le\u00fcl\u00f6k pl. egy tea mell\u00e9, \u00e9s nyugodtan, van id\u0151m, v\u00e1laszolgatok minden \u00fczenetre; akkor, ha naponta tervezek f\u00e9l \u00f3ra te\u00e1z\u00e1st&#8230;\u201d  <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c1men, vagy ahogy itt mondj\u00e1k: Allah k\u00eds\u00e9rjen utadon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTeh\u00e1t nekem k\u00f6t\u0151d\u00e9si hi\u00e1nyoss\u00e1gaim vannak, melyek az anya\u2013bab\u00e1ja k\u00f6z\u00f6tti nem megfelel\u0151 k\u00f6t\u0151d\u00e9sre vezethet\u0151k vissza.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cdrtam ezt egy \u00fajabb podcast hallgat\u00e1sa ut\u00e1n. Gondolom, egy ilyen meg\u00e1llap\u00edt\u00e1s ut\u00e1n b\u00e1rmelyik szakember szeretne egyet tapsolni \u2013 amennyiben a fejem a tenyer\u00fck k\u00f6z\u00f6tt helyezkedik el. <br>Mert azt m\u00e1r mindenki tudja, hogy az \u00f6ndiagnosztiz\u00e1l\u00e1s ritk\u00e1n vezet j\u00f3ra. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Engem az \u00e9rdekelne, hogy akkor most mi legyen? <br>Semmilyen \u00e9rtelemben sem szeretn\u00e9m magamat s\u00e9r\u00fcltnek tekinteni; tal\u00e1n nem is sz\u00fcks\u00e9ges. Azt, hogy m\u00e1s vagyok, azt m\u00e1r n\u00e9h\u00e1ny oldallal kor\u00e1bban meg\u00e1llap\u00edtottam. <br>Azt is m\u00e1r r\u00e9g\u00f3ta tudom, hogy majdnem annyi kapcsol\u00f3d\u00e1si probl\u00e9m\u00e1m van, mint egy Axelero internetnek. <br><em>(Az a bet\u00e1rcs\u00e1z\u00f3s modem, a m\u00falt \u00e9vezredb\u0151l.) <\/em><br>K\u00e9rd\u00e9s, hogy mi a k\u00e9plet megold\u00e1sa? <br>Ezzel a fel nem ismert probl\u00e9m\u00e1val m\u00e9g foglalkoznom kell!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNem, mag\u00e1nyos az nem vagyok.<br>Tal\u00e1n, n\u00e9ha egyed\u00fcl.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hogy is van: akinek k\u00f6nyvt\u00e1ra van, az sosem mag\u00e1nyos. Ma azt gondolom, hogy olyan, mintha nem a k\u00e9zzelfoghat\u00f3 val\u00f3s\u00e1gban \u00e9ln\u00e9k. Ak\u00e1rcsak az unoka\u00f6cs\u00e9m, aki eg\u00e9sz nap a t\u00e1blag\u00e9p\u00e9n besz\u00e9lget.<br>Erre a mondatra is vissza kell t\u00e9rnem k\u00e9s\u0151bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eKih\u00edv\u00e1s: rendszeres\u00edteni, legal\u00e1bb az internetes kapcsolattart\u00e1s szok\u00e1s\u00e1t.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Igen, ez t\u00e9nyleg kih\u00edv\u00e1s.<br>Mit \u00edrjak? Kinek? Hol? T\u00e9nyleg olyan, mintha null\u00e1r\u00f3l kellene kezdenem. <br>Lehet, els\u0151k\u00e9nt bevezetem azt a szok\u00e1st, hogy mik\u00f6zben megiszom a k\u00e1v\u00e9mat, abban a tizen\u00f6t percben \u00fczeneteket \u00edrok. Az sem baj, ha \u00e9rtelmetlen dolgokat, mindegy is kinek. <br>Csak tal\u00e1n lehetne az az els\u0151 l\u00e9p\u00e9s, hogy szok\u00e1st csin\u00e1lok abb\u00f3l, hogy \u00e9l\u0151 emberekkel kommunik\u00e1lok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNekem az nem megy, megyek az utc\u00e1n \u00e9s k\u00f6zben \u00fczeneteket \u00edrok. Nekem ahhoz meg kell \u00e1llni, le kell \u00fclni.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Egy lehets\u00e9ges megold\u00e1s p\u00e1r sorral feljebb&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">A \u201evan mit \u00e1tgondolni\u201d fejezetnek nem ez volt az els\u0151 r\u00e9sze \u00e9s biztosan lesz m\u00e9g folytat\u00e1sa.<br>Ja, \u00e9s ezekre a mondatokra is vissza kell t\u00e9rnem. Azt hiszem, m\u00e9g nem fejtettem meg mindent.<\/pre>\n\n\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-flickr wp-block-embed-flickr\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<a data-flickr-embed='true' href='https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/58309506@N08' title='Laszlo Varga'><img src='https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/54971653273_74824654e0_c.jpg' width='800' height='600' alt='20251208_160817'><\/a><script async src='https:\/\/embedr.flickr.com\/assets\/client-code.js' charset='utf-8'><\/script>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><kbd><mark style=\"background-color:#000000\" class=\"has-inline-color has-white-color\">A k\u00e9p sz\u00e9l\u00e9re val\u00f3 kattint\u00e1ssal a fot\u00f3album lapozhat\u00f3.<\/mark><\/kbd><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1000037874-432x1024.png\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\" noreferrer noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1081\" height=\"2560\" src=\"https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1000037874-scaled.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11007\" srcset=\"https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1000037874-scaled.png 1081w, https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1000037874-127x300.png 127w, https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1000037874-432x1024.png 432w, https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1000037874-768x1819.png 768w, https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1000037874-648x1536.png 648w, https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1000037874-1140x2701.png 1140w, https:\/\/laszlo8360.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1000037874-1320x3127.png 1320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1081px) 100vw, 1081px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Attachments, Challenges and Coffee Messages<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In December 2025, on a balcony in Hurghada facing the desert sunset, I return to a few sentence fragments I wrote down in Hungary in November. I write about tea, quiet coffee breaks, attachment issues, and the very ordinary yet strangely difficult challenge of staying in touch online. Maybe I\u2019m not lonely \u2013 maybe I just have to relearn from scratch how to talk to living human beings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI\u2019ve gathered a few sentence fragments noted down in Hungary in November 2025.\u201d<br>To which I\u2019m replying on December 10, 2025, sitting on my balcony in Hurghada, looking out at the desert sunset.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cSo, what feels comfortable for me is if I sit down, for example, with a cup of tea, and calmly, with time, I answer every message; so if I plan half an hour of tea time every day&#8230;\u201d<br>Amen, or as they say here: May Allah guide your way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cSo I have attachment deficiencies that can be traced back to an inadequate bond between mother and baby.\u201d<br>I wrote this after listening to yet another podcast. I imagine that after such a statement any professional would feel like giving me a good slap \u2013 provided my head is positioned right between their palms.<br>Because by now everyone knows that self-diagnosis rarely ends well. What I\u2019d really like to know is: so what now?<br>In no sense do I want to consider myself damaged; maybe it\u2019s not even necessary. That I\u2019m different, I already established a few pages earlier. I\u2019ve also known for a long time that I have almost as many connection problems as an Axelero internet line.<br>(You know, that dial-up modem from the last century.)<br>The question is: what is the solution to the equation? I still have to work on this not-yet-recognised problem!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo, I\u2019m not lonely.<br>Maybe, sometimes, just alone.\u201d<br>How does the saying go: someone with a library is never lonely. Today I feel as if I weren\u2019t living in the tangible reality. Just like my nephew, who spends the whole day talking to people on his tablet.<br>I\u2019ll have to come back to this sentence later as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cChallenge: to make at least online contact-keeping a regular habit.\u201d<br>Yes, this really is a challenge.<br>What should I write? To whom? Where? It really feels as if I had to start from zero. Maybe I\u2019ll first introduce the habit that while I drink my coffee, during those fifteen minutes I write messages. It doesn\u2019t even matter if they\u2019re about meaningless things, or whom I send them to. Maybe the first step could simply be making it a habit to communicate with living people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI just can\u2019t do that thing where I walk down the street and meanwhile I\u2019m texting. For that I need to stop, I need to sit down.\u201d<br>One possible solution is a few lines above&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Attachements, d\u00e9fis et messages au go\u00fbt de caf\u00e9<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En d\u00e9cembre 2025, sur un balcon \u00e0 Hurghada face au coucher de soleil sur le d\u00e9sert, je reviens \u00e0 quelques fragments de phrases not\u00e9s en Hongrie en novembre. J\u2019\u00e9cris sur le th\u00e9, les silences autour d\u2019un caf\u00e9, les troubles de l\u2019attachement et ce d\u00e9fi \u00e0 la fois banal et \u00e9trangement difficile qu\u2019est le maintien des liens en ligne. Peut-\u00eatre que je ne suis pas solitaire \u2013 peut-\u00eatre que je dois simplement r\u00e9apprendre \u00e0 parler, depuis z\u00e9ro, \u00e0 des \u00eatres humains bien vivants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ab J\u2019ai rassemblott\u00e9 quelques fragments de phrases de novembre 2025, not\u00e9s en Hongrie. \u00bb<br>Auxquels je r\u00e9ponds le 10 d\u00e9cembre 2025, depuis mon balcon \u00e0 Harghada, tourn\u00e9 vers le coucher de soleil sur le d\u00e9sert.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ab Donc, pour moi, ce qui est confortable, c\u2019est de m\u2019asseoir, par exemple avec une tasse de th\u00e9, et tranquillement, avec du temps, de r\u00e9pondre \u00e0 chaque message ; \u00e0 condition de pr\u00e9voir une demi-heure de th\u00e9 par jour\u2026 \u00bb<br>Amen, ou comme on dit ici : Qu\u2019Allah accompagne ton chemin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ab Donc j\u2019ai des carences d\u2019attachement, qui peuvent \u00eatre ramen\u00e9es \u00e0 un lien inadapt\u00e9 entre la m\u00e8re et son b\u00e9b\u00e9. \u00bb<br>J\u2019ai \u00e9crit \u00e7a apr\u00e8s avoir \u00e9cout\u00e9 un \u00e9ni\u00e8me podcast. J\u2019imagine qu\u2019apr\u00e8s une telle d\u00e9claration, n\u2019importe quel sp\u00e9cialiste aurait envie d\u2019applaudir \u2013 \u00e0 condition que ma t\u00eate soit bien plac\u00e9e entre ses deux mains.<br>Parce que tout le monde sait d\u00e9j\u00e0 que l\u2019auto-diagnostic m\u00e8ne rarement \u00e0 quelque chose de bon. Ce qui m\u2019int\u00e9resse, c\u2019est : qu\u2019est-ce qu\u2019on fait maintenant ?<br>Je n\u2019ai, en aucun cas, envie de me consid\u00e9rer comme ab\u00eem\u00e9e ; ce n\u2019est peut-\u00eatre m\u00eame pas n\u00e9cessaire. Que je sois diff\u00e9rente, je l\u2019ai d\u00e9j\u00e0 constat\u00e9 quelques pages plus t\u00f4t. Et je sais depuis longtemps que j\u2019ai presque autant de probl\u00e8mes de connexion qu\u2019un acc\u00e8s internet Axelero.<br>(Ce vieux modem bas d\u00e9bit, du si\u00e8cle dernier.)<br>La question, c\u2019est : quelle est la solution de l\u2019\u00e9quation ? Il va falloir que je m\u2019occupe encore de ce probl\u00e8me non reconnu !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ab Non, je ne suis pas solitaire.<br>Peut-\u00eatre, parfois, simplement seule. \u00bb<br>Comment dit-on d\u00e9j\u00e0 ? Celui qui a une biblioth\u00e8que n\u2019est jamais seul. Aujourd\u2019hui, j\u2019ai l\u2019impression de ne pas vivre dans la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 tangible. Un peu comme mon neveu, qui passe ses journ\u00e9es enti\u00e8res \u00e0 discuter sur sa tablette.<br>Je devrai revenir, plus tard, \u00e0 cette phrase aussi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ab D\u00e9fi : rendre au moins l\u2019entretien des contacts en ligne r\u00e9gulier. \u00bb<br>Oui, c\u2019est vraiment un d\u00e9fi.<br>Qu\u2019est-ce que j\u2019\u00e9cris ? \u00c0 qui ? O\u00f9 ? C\u2019est vraiment comme si je devais repartir de z\u00e9ro. Peut-\u00eatre que je vais commencer par instaurer l\u2019habitude que, pendant que je bois mon caf\u00e9, je profite de ces quinze minutes pour \u00e9crire des messages. M\u00eame si ce sont des choses sans importance, et peu importe \u00e0 qui. Peut-\u00eatre que le premier pas pourrait simplement \u00eatre de faire de la communication avec des gens bien r\u00e9els une habitude.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ab Moi, je n\u2019y arrive pas : marcher dans la rue et en m\u00eame temps \u00e9crire des messages. 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