Michael olyan sr\u00e1c volt, aki t\u00e9nyleg meg tudott \u0151rj\u00edteni.
\nmindig j\u00f3kedv\u0171 volt \u00e9s mindig vid\u00e1m tudott valami pozit\u00edvat mondani\u2026
\nHa valaki megk\u00e9rdezte, hogy\u00a0\u00a0 van, azt v\u00e1laszolta:<\/p>\n
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\u201cHa jobban lenn\u00e9k kett\u0151 lenne bel\u0151lem\u201d. Sz\u00fcletett optimista volt.
\nHa valamelyik beosztottj\u00e1nak rossz napja volt, Michael azt mondta neki, hogy a helyzet pozit\u00edv oldal\u00e1t kel n\u00e9znie.
\nAnnyira k\u00edv\u00e1ncsiv\u00e1 tett a term\u00e9szete, hogy egy nap odamentem hozz\u00e1 \u00e9s azt mondtam: Ezt egyszer\u0171en nem \u00e9rtem.
\nNem gondolkodhatsz mindig pozit\u00edvan. Hogy csin\u00e1lod ezt? Michael azt v\u00e1laszolta:
\n\u201cHa reggel felkelek, azt mondom magamnak: K\u00e9t lehet\u0151s\u00e9ged van.
\nV\u00e1laszthatsz, hogy j\u00f3- vagy rossz kedv\u0171 akarsz e lenni.
\nminden alkalommal, ha t\u00f6rt\u00e9ni valami, magam v\u00e1laszthatok, hogy elszenved\u0151je legyek a helyzetnek, vagy tanuljak bel\u0151le.
\nMinden alkalommal, ha odaj\u00f6n valaki hozz\u00e1m, hogy panaszkodjon, elfogadhatom a panaszkod\u00e1s\u00e1t vagy felh\u00edvhatom a figyelm\u00e9t az \u00e9let sz\u00e9ps\u00e9geire. \u00c9n a pozit\u00edv oldal\u00e1t v\u00e1lasztottam.
\n\u201cJ\u00f3 rendben, de ez nem olyan egyszer\u0171.\u201d Sz\u00f3ltam k\u00f6zbe.
\n\u201cDe egyszer\u0171,\u201d \u2013 monda Michael. \u201caz \u00e9let csupa v\u00e1laszt\u00e1si lehet\u0151s\u00e9gekb\u0151l \u00e1ll. Te d\u00f6nt\u00f6d el, hogyan reag\u00e1lsz a k\u00fcl\u00f6nb\u00f6z\u0151 helyzetekben\u2026
\nV\u00e1laszthatsz, hogy az emberek hogyan befoly\u00e1solj\u00e1k a hangulatod. A mott\u00f3m:
\nte d\u00f6nt\u00f6d el, hogy hogyan \u00e9led az \u00e9leted.\u201d<\/p>\n
Elgondolkoztam Michael szavain. R\u00f6vid id\u0151vel k\u00e9s\u0151bb elhagytam a Tower Industry-t, hogy \u00f6n\u00e1ll\u00f3 legyek. Szem el\u0151l t\u00e9vesztett\u00fck egym\u00e1st. De gyakran gondoltam r\u00e1, ha \u00fagy d\u00f6nt\u00f6ttem hogy \u00e9lek. N\u00e9h\u00e1ny \u00e9vvel k\u00e9s\u0151bb Michael s\u00falyos balesetet szenvedett. Leesett egy kb. 18 m\u00e9ter magas toronyr\u00f3l. 18 \u00f3r\u00e1s m\u0171t\u00e9t \u00e9s sok hetes intenz\u00edv \u00e1pol\u00e1s ut\u00e1n Michaelt elbocs\u00e1jtott\u00e1k a k\u00f3rh\u00e1zb\u00f3l f\u00e9mt\u00e1maszokkal a h\u00e1t\u00e1ban.
\nMikor megl\u00e1togattam, megk\u00e9rdeztem, hogy \u00e9rzi mag\u00e1t.
\nAzt v\u00e1laszolta:
\n\u201cHa jobban lenn\u00e9k kett\u0151 lenne bel\u0151lem.\u00a0 Szeretn\u00e9d l\u00e1tni a sebemet?\u201d
\nLemondtam r\u00f3la, de megk\u00e9rdeztem, hogy mi j\u00e1tsz\u00f3dott\u00a0 le benne a baleset pillanat\u00e1ban.
\n\u201dNos az els\u0151, ami \u00e1tsuhant az agyamon az volt, hogy a l\u00e1nyom \u2013 aki p\u00e1r h\u00e9t m\u00falva j\u00f6n a vil\u00e1gra \u2013 j\u00f3l van e? Mikor pedig a f\u00f6ld\u00f6n fek\u00fcdtem, eml\u00e9keztem, hogy k\u00e9t lehet\u0151s\u00e9gem van: v\u00e1laszthattam, hogy \u00e9lek vagy meghalok.\u201d
\n\u201dF\u00e9lt\u00e9l? Elvesztetted az eml\u00e9kezeted?\u201d akartam tudni.
\nMichael folytatta: \u201c Az \u00e1pol\u00f3k val\u00f3ban \u00f3 munk\u00e1t v\u00e9geztek, v\u00e9gig azt mondogatt\u00e1k, hogy j\u00f3l vagyok.
\nDe mikor begur\u00edtottak a s\u00fcrg\u0151ss\u00e9gire, l\u00e1ttam az orvosok \u00e9s n\u0151v\u00e9rek arckifejez\u00e9s\u00e9t, ami azt jelentette: \u2018Halott ember.\u2019\u00a0 \u00c9s tudtam, hogy \u00e1t kell vennem az ir\u00e1ny\u00edt\u00e1st.\u201d
\n\u201dMit csin\u00e1lt\u00e1l?\u201d \u2013 k\u00e9rdeztem t\u0151le.
\n\u201dNos, mikor egy felv\u00e9telis n\u0151v\u00e9rke hangosan megk\u00e9rdezte, hogy allergi\u00e1s vagyok e valamire, igennel v\u00e1lasztoltam. Az orvosok \u00e9s a n\u0151v\u00e9rek cs\u00f6ndben v\u00e1rt\u00e1k a v\u00e1laszom. M\u00e9ly leveg\u0151t v\u00e9ve visszaord\u00edtottam: \u2018A gravit\u00e1ci\u00f3ra!\u2019
\nMialatt az eg\u00e9sz csapat nevetett, elmagyar\u00e1ztam nekik: az \u00e9letet v\u00e1lasztottam. Teh\u00e1t \u00fagy oper\u00e1ltak meg mintha \u00e9l\u0151 lenn\u00e9k \u00e9s nem halott.\u201d
\nMichael a tehets\u00e9ges orvosoknak k\u00f6sz\u00f6nhet\u0151en maradt \u00e9letben, de csod\u00e1lni val\u00f3 hozz\u00e1 \u00e1ll\u00e1s\u00e1val is.
\nT\u0151le tanultam meg, hogy mindennap lehet\u0151s\u00e9g\u00fcnk van v\u00e1lasztani, teljes \u00e9letet \u00e9lni. Hozz\u00e1\u00e1ll\u00e1s k\u00e9rd\u00e9se minden. ez\u00e9rt ne agg\u00f3dj amiatt, mi lesz holnap.
\nminden nap van el\u00e9g, ami miatt agg\u00f3dhatsz.<\/p>\n
\u00c9S A MA AZ A HOLNAP, AMI MIATT TEGNAP AGG\u00d3DT\u00c1L\u2026<\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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