Family samples

Endre Kadarkai’s radio show today is about family patterns. 🎙️ Important questions: what are my family patterns? How do I recognise them? Awareness and consistency are needed. Self-awareness and recognition of your own patterns can be the key. 🤔 #family #self-awareness #consciousness

2024. 17 May. Friday
“The pattern is everything we see around us when we grow up.” What are my family patterns?
“What I often saw is common. I know what it’s like… Somewhere safe for me.”
“I wouldn’t know what to do if he suddenly started paying attention to me.” I knew myself. I don’t know how to put it, but I’m really uncomfortable with being dealt with. For now, I don’t know where to put this fresh insight. What are my good and bad patterns? How can I recognise the samples I have brought?
“For example, we learn our limits at home.”
“For example, we learn the style of communication.”
“There is no hopeless situation.”
Let there be (today) “awareness and consistency.”
“I am not responsible for my emotions, but for what I do with them.” Lots of questions and I don’t know the answers yet. How do I become aware? When and how do I catch myself thinking that these are family patterns? Consciousness is a big question for me anyway. For example, there is learning. I am not consistent. How do I get myself to do it? Regularly? What is the family pattern of this? Is it the pattern or the self-awareness? Maybe the point should be to recognize my own patterns? And through that, the family patterns.
“What is the real problem? ” Obviously “it’s not that there is no space.”